A visionary thinker, you’re excited about the New Year because you’re already thinking of where you want your business to be at the end of this year.  I’d like to invite you to take a step back.

We focus so much on what’s next that we forget to enjoy the moment and celebrate our accomplishments.  As you checked each task off your To Do list last year, your first instinct was probably to look for the next thing to do.

You’re excited by your projects so you’re eager to see them come to fruition; however, there’s also a lot to be gained by looking back to celebrate and learn.

Celebrate!

I only realized how focused I always was on the future when my first coach pointed out that I rarely took time to celebrate my accomplishments.  At her invitation, I went through my previous year’s agenda and listed everything I had accomplished in my first year in business as a coach.  I filled two pages of significant milestones that had zipped by unnoticed and un-celebrated!  All this time I thought I wasn’t making progress; I felt I wasn’t very successful and that was very frustrating.

So I sent my coach this list and together we celebrated what I had accomplished that year that I’d almost missed!  By the way, if you’ve never done it before, do it.  You’ll be amazed how great it feels to celebrate your own accomplishments.

What Have You Learned From Your Accomplishments?

Looking back also helps you learn.  Look at your accomplishments.  What did you do to achieve them?  What kind of person did you become in the process?  What have you learned from the experience and how can you use this knowledge in the future?

If you began to network with other business people last year, you might have needed to get out of your comfort zone.  By doing that, you became someone who doesn’t let fear stop you, or you discovered that meeting people wasn’t as difficult as you thought is was.  Maybe you discovered you enjoy connecting with people.  You may even be so encouraged that you decide you’ll take bolder steps to connect with others.  See what I mean?

Turn Failures Into Learning Experiences

Now, doing this exercise may remind you of your failures as well.  The most amazing part of looking back is the shift that occurs when you notice what didn’t work.  I’m going to tell you something many gurus (and it doesn’t really matter what they’re gurus of!) will never tell you: it’s ok to look at your failures.  In fact, it’s essential if you want to learn (and you do want to learn, right?!)

But instead of dwelling on how you “screwed up”, I want you to embrace your so-called failures as the learning experiences they really are, use them as the opportunities to grow that they represent, and become wiser and better.  The next time you encounter a similar situation, you’ll be looking back at it as one of your accomplishments instead of one of your failures.  Just ask yourself:

1. What did I learn from this experience?  What went wrong (and even in the middle of the failure, did anything go right? How can we make sure we don’t lose what went right?)
2. If this or a similar situation happens again, what changes can I make to achieve a better outcome?
3. What systems, habits or structures do I need to put in place to be ready for the next time?  How will I recognize that the same thing is about to happen?  And how will I be sure to react to it happening in the new and improved way?

Can you imagine the meteoric improvement you’d spark if you looked at every accomplishment and every failure as a learning opportunity, and actively worked as pulling out every single lesson and acting on it?  That might just be worth taking some time to look back for a moment, don’t you think?

So, on your mark…  Get set…  Look back!

I watched Elvis Costello’s interview with U2’s Bono and The Edge the other night.  It was a thoroughly enjoyable show, particularly for a fan of both U2 and Elvis Costello.  At one point in the interview, Bono was speaking about the U2 members’ decision to form a band and he mentioned that they had decided to form U2 before they could even play any instruments.  That month, Bono also met his now-wife for the first time.  As he said, “That was a big month!”  That was thirty years ago, and both U2 and Bono’s marriage have lasted.

Bono went on to explain that the band just learned as they went along, acting on complete faith, listening to the music they liked and taking their influences from industry greats to create their own unique sound. They knew talent and ability had to be there as well, but as Bono said, “We just never considered that we might not have any talent or ability.”

He went on to relate some embarrassing moments; once they began to take off, they had the opportunity to meet Keith Richards and Mick Jagger.  Keith played along on one of U2’s songs, and then invited U2 to play a Stones song with them.  U2 had to decline the invitation, explaining that they couldn’t play along because they hadn’t learned to play any music but their own yet!  Of course, today, we consider then all extraordinary musicians, but what they realized is that the power of a dream comes from the ability to see yourself as an extraordinary musician before there’s any evidence to back you up.

Every entrepreneur faces that same moment.  The moment when you see something, a possibility, that no one else sees.  What decides your future is what you do at that moment.  Do you wait until you know how to build a business, or until you conduct enough market research that you’re sure it’ll work?  Or do you make a decision?

No one can decide for you.  And you can’t wait until you’re sure it will work before you decide.  The only way it works, the only way it has ever worked, is that you decide, and then you MAKE IT WORK.

A decision, belief in yourself, and the power of your dream, makes all the difference.

I love working with entrepreneurs. Their passionate, us-against-world attitude is exciting, but they were always the toughest clients to keep. Brilliance, creativity and a whirlwind of activity just aren’t enough to overcome the procrastination, poor focus and lack of follow through that often cost them their business.

I wanted to help, but I was struggling with the same situation at home! I’d naively hoped Duane’s marriage proposal a month after our first (blind!) date signaled the end of his reckless trouble making and thrill seeking. But, impulsive as ever, he roamed from job to job – sales, clerk, programmer, teacher, project manager…

After crossing the country (twice) following his latest “opportunity of a lifetime,” I put my foot down. He had to stick with his job with a dot com. He loved the excitement but he just couldn’t manage his time or get organized.

Spiraling out of control, Duane delivered a project late (at double what he’d bid!) Ready to fire him (as miserable as he was, Duane would have been relieved!), instead Duane’s boss demoted him, but insisted things improve.

Devastated, Duane thought, “Time for a change!”, but I refused to pack up and leave (again!). I wasn’t even sure our marriage would last… in the few hours he wasn’t at work, Duane was just as unfocused and disorganized at home. I felt like the only adult in our family. We needed help, and as stressful and uncertain as those days were, they provided the incentive for us to find the silver lining to the cloud we’d been living under.

I credit divine intervention for the experimental training program at a local university. Seeking intelligent, creative people full of energy, but who struggled to maintain focus and get organized, they described Duane (and my favorite entrepreneur clients) perfectly!

We learned that some people are better suited to a primal existence. Compare a “farmer” (or accountant, manager or clerk) to a nomadic “rebel” (rock star, artist or entrepreneur). Often labeled with ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder) as children, as was my youngest daughter, as adults these “Rebels” struggle because they think differently.

Their brain activates with passion, and the time management strategies that work for others just don’t work for them. But once Duane learned to work with his brain instead of against it, life took an exciting 180-degree turn almost overnight! Within weeks, he was back to his old salary AND then surpassed it! Within two years, Duane was vice-president at more than triple his salary. Astonishingly, career rocketing to success, Duane simultaneously cut his hours!

Duane was a new man. I was proud of him, and as was recently described in an article in The Globe and Mail, Duane’s transformation inspired me. I decided I had to share this “secret” with the Rebel entrepreneurs I’d been unable to help earlier in my career.

Numerous time management experts claim to know the secrets of time management, and while their strategies do help many people, entrepreneurs come to me after they’ve exhausted the experts’ advice with little or no improvement. The strategies I teach have proven so successful for “Rebel” entrepreneurs they’re featured in Success magazine.

The challenge I face with my “Rebel” clients is convincing them they CAN DO THIS. Often having struggled through school, failed at job after job, even failing in business before they find their passion, most are convinced they’re the problem, not the solution. But it’s stunningly easy, and once you start working with your brain instead of against it, the transformation is immediate and amazing. It’s hard to believe, but the more screwed up you are, the faster and better these techniques work.

Are you ready to find your silver lining? To learn more, please request my free report, “Top Ten Entrepreneur Productivity Myths… Busted!“